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Dan & Kristin Naylor on Surviving Child Loss

Dan & Kristin Naylor on Surviving Child Loss

Dan & Kristin Naylor share the story of their daughter Abby who lost her life in the womb due to an umbilical twist. The Naylors talk about the realities of their grief, difficulties of returning to church, and how God met them in their pain and walked with them....

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Our Story on the Grief Mentor Podcast

Our Story on the Grief Mentor Podcast

We were invited to share our story of losing Tristan with Teresa Davis on The Grief Mentor Podcast. We talk about how God walked us through those darkest of days and continues to be alongside us today. Also on YouTube

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Held Through The Storm

Held Through The Storm

Gary & Laura House, of the Our Hearts Are Home ministry, asked me to contribute our story to their book "Held Through the Storm: Stories of Suicide Loss and Hope in Christ" Don't just buy it for my story. There are amazing men and women of God shining brightly...

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God’s Servant Ruth children’s book

God’s Servant Ruth children’s book

My daughter, McKenna, illustrated a children's book for author Doug Bond and P&R Publishing. It's part of Doug's A Poem With A Promise series. "God's Servant Ruth tells the story of Naomi, Boaz, and Ruth in verse. This beautifully illustrated book explains...

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Psalm 22 Podcast Episode Guide

Psalm 22 Podcast Episode Guide

There are 6 messages in this series on Psalm 22. This is a rich psalm filled with marvelous insight to encourage and comfort the suffering Christian. It provides some of the grandest truths in all of Scripture, Job-like in it's intensity and Revelation-like in it's...

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Rooting out our inner Eliphaz and Bildad

Rooting out our inner Eliphaz and Bildad

There is one verse in Job that I find to be outrageous. It’s a statement made by fool named Bildad. Bildad has a theory about why all ten of Job’s children were killed by a whirlwind. In fact, it’s not just a theory, it’s a theology. It’s a stunning, out-of-bounds...

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“I can’t imagine what you’re going through”

“I can’t imagine what you’re going through”

Two years ago today my wife and I buried our 18yo son, our third child, Tristan, who took his life by his own hand. When someone learns about our loss, the most common response we hear is, “I’m so sorry! I can’t imagine what you’re going through!” That’s a correct...

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The Spirit Returns to God Who Gave It

The Spirit Returns to God Who Gave It

...and the dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it. Eccl 12:7 This is a morbid verse. I seem to be drawn to dwell on morbid things since losing a child. Verses like these consume me because this is the reality where my heart and...

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Singing and the Heavy Heart

Singing and the Heavy Heart

Have you ever found it hard to sing at church? For more than a year after my son’s death, not only could I not sing in church, I couldn’t even listen to music. My wife was different. She needed music playing all the time, and played Shane & Shane endlessly. That’s...

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